i was talking to a friend...and he was talking about the guys i get involved with....and how they must be pedophiles for being attracted to me. i'm not 6 years old though. whenever i think of pedophiles, i think of people who are attracted to boys and girls who have not hit puberty, don't have pubic hair or deeper voices. i can be passed for 21 or 22. so if i'm seeing someone who is of that age, what makes it so bad? when a man is forty and married to a twenty five year old...it's perfectly acceptable. and what if i'm only attracted to people who are 5 to 10 years older than i am? does that make me a geriaphile? (i doubt the word exists...but imagine the extreme being the 25 year old girl married to the 75 year old man) i don't think that its such a horrible thing to want someone a tad more developed and mature...girls do develop and mature faster than boys...i don't really know what i'm on about. just some thoughts, i guess.