all sex requires is initiative.

G: and a receptive 2nd party

Halmooky (9:36:20 PM): unless you're a mutant, the 2nd party is usually alright

G: lol

Halmooky (9:37:46 PM): it's true!

G: i guess

Halmooky (9:40:29 PM): how many times have you tried and been batted away?

G: I"ve never just tried like "wanna fuck?"

Halmooky (9:41:53 PM): hehe well thats not always well received.

Halmooky (9:42:06 PM): but if you just kiss someone...they'll kiss you back.

Halmooky (9:42:08 PM): and then you're in.

G: I suppose

Halmooky (9:46:32 PM): i'll bet you wouldn't try =(

G: I don't have the guts or confidence for it

Halmooky (9:47:52 PM): hehe you don't need it... it's like 99% success rate

Halmooky (9:49:53 PM): kind of like...when you walk down the stairs...there's a chance you could fall...but it probably only happens once every thousand times you walk down them

Furthermore...if you make the first move, it take the pressure off the other person. there's no fear of rejection on her side...people, even if submissive, enjoy having the power to reject...and at the same time, enjoy the dominance that you declare when you make the first move...

most of the time people are generally open to most experiences and if you know the person, you can know him well enough to know how to go about winning him over, or at least, to keep his tongue in your mouth and hands running your hips...

not that i'm some sort of dating guru. but that's my 2000 a night advice.